Since God provides sufficient grace to all of us then how can we be totally depraved? Therefore, total depravity is false, an idol you erect that keeps you eternally separated from God which says you can't repent, so you don't, and that is selfish. You want an easy-believism in a selfish salvation, accepting any old spirit that simulates God's saving grace as a facsimile of God's design. You worship a false Christ, because you are unwilling to repent and believe in Christ to be regenerated (new birth, initial salvation, born-again, receiving eternal life). That's why you are going to Hell which makes me very sad for you.

Let's talk about it. If you stop avoiding, you might actually be saved one day.

Quote Originally Posted by onesmallmirror
God doesn't provide sufficient grace for all of us (calvinsim does not teach that), only for the elect. Arminianism on the other hand, says Christ's blood was shed for all, wherein some of it will be wasted. Calvinism says not one drop will be spilled for He only died for those who will receive 'sufficient grace' as you have called it.
You can't divide up the blood of Christ to segment a portion for each person as you try to do in Calvinism. That's very legalistic. That's not how the blood works. The blood is for eternal forgiveness by an infinite God, so the blood is never wasted when God is perfectly righteous in His administering the blood to whoever is willing to receive it, sufficient for all the world. "And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world" (1 John 2.2). "The whole world lieth in wickedness" (1 John 5.19). So "faith is spoken of throughout the whole world" (Rom. 1.8).

Grace is not sufficient if it is not sufficient for the whole world. Even if God did not provide ample grace to only person, then it would not be sufficient. In Calvinism it is not sufficient for all, only an irresistible elect. So the blood of the Christ of Calvinism pales in comparison to the blood of Jesus Christ. The blood of Jesus can save everyone if everyone was willing, but the blood of the Jesus of Calvinism cannot. And of course the blood of the true Jesus is sufficient for all: "Who is the Saviour of all men, specially of those that believe" (1 Tim. 4:10). "If any man eat...my flesh, which I will give for the life of the world" (v. 51). "Not wishing that any should perish" (2 Pet. 3:9). You are "without excuse" (Rom 1.20). How can you be without excuse if grace is not provided to all? And doesn't "specially those that believe" indicate that as "Savior of all men" there are some men that don't believe even though they received sufficient grace?

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (John 3.16). "For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved" (John 3.17). "Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus; Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time" (1 Tim. 2.4-6). "The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Pet. 3.9). "And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world" (1 John 2.2).

In Calvinism nobody has the right to refuse the gift of salvation or to receive it.