Is it loving to send a person to Hell before the foundations of the world, never giving the person the grace to have the human ability to accept the Lord?

Since the weight of the evidence is for OSAS Arminian and not Calvinism, then simply try to understand those verses you understand in a Calvinist context into an OSAS Arminian context then you will be good to go!

What does this all mean? It also means than the probability of any one of these individuals is less than 1% of being regenerated a new creation of God.

1. James White is going to Hell
2. Paul Washer is going to Hell
3. Charles Spurgeon is going to Hell
4. Matt J. Slick is going to Hell
5. Jonathan Edwards is going to Hell
6. Erwin Lutzer is going to Hell
7. John F. MacArthur is going to Hell
8. John Piper is going to Hell
9. R.C. Sproul is going to Hell

This is not a very comprehensive list. Half of Methodists are Calvinists. Presbyterians are going to Hell.

The atonement of Calvinism was not powerful enough to save everyone, only able to die for some; and not that everyone is saved for it still depends on whosoever will.

We at least know whom not to break bread with.

God so loved the world. It does not say God so loved the elect.