Speaking to Christians "When you came to Christ" (Col. 2.11). It doesn't say "When God made you come to Him."

"He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it to the cross" (v.14).

The record remains outsanding for Calvinists because they refuse to appropriate God's saving grace; instead, pridefully, they pretentiously prefer to assume they were irresistibly selected rather than repenting to the cross as helpless sinners to be regenerated: "come to Him".