Unrepentant and Unhelpful
Wayne Woiken finally discovered I posted this thread on the Internet. Good! He should know I am serious about his abusive behavior. He has a hard edge to him. His comments grind on you and has a "grating" personality. Gloria said some cops think they are God sometimes because of their line of work so they can be very arrogant and self-righteous. This is what turns me off about Wayne and rubs me the wrong way. He gets more and more self-righteous with each comment when he is the one who is committing indiscretions.
He came on the court at Mill Woods Rec Centre Nov. 10, 2015 and railed at me today. From what I can remember, he accused me of calling him fat and was considering taking legal action and demanded that I remove this thread. Not going to happen! Wayne was being abusive, I documented it, and on the court today he got harder and harder in his spirit against me (he came on the court to rail not to play) which proves this is God's will that I post this thread on these forums because it is affecting him (I can tell by his IP address that he reads this thread lots). I actually would remove this thread if he repented and apologized. He almost did actually when he admitted to me he was having a bad day that day which caused him to act the way he did. But that was brief moment. He went right back to railing again! He even accused me that this is not how a Christian should behave. How would he know how a Christian should act since he is not a Christian? Now all of a sudden his a Christian expert? I have done what the Bible said to do,
"Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them" (Eph. 5.11). If I didn't expose Wayne Woiken I would not be doing God's will.
When non-Christians try to judge you based on their misunderstanding of God's word, just give them this precious verse: "But you have received the Holy Spirit [anointing from Him], and he lives within you [abides in Christians only], so you don’t need anyone to teach you what is true. For the Spirit [the anointing] teaches you everything you need to know, and what he teaches is true—it is not a lie. So just as he has taught you, remain in fellowship with Christ" (1 John 2.27). Amen!
The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of Truth in those who are born-again, and the evil spirit in non-Christians is the spirit of deception and untruth which remains an immutable, unalterable fact no matter how much the atheist, hostile to God, tries to put a spin on things. Wayne Woiken is particularly good at rationalizing his flesh but it is not justifiable before God.
Woiken said he was not given any grace. He was given lots of grace. I forgave him over and over and would love to take down this thread if he repented. That is the natural course of action which would seem reasonable. But it is in the cloud now in perpetuity. He has received so much grace I let it slide and don't bring up the matter again. How much grace does He want? He wants more grace than even God can give him.
Wayne used a phrase with me by saying "you have a history." Of course, I have a history. That history started with the abusiveness of John Halko and Barbara May in 2009 which I have a right to defend myself and expose their unethical behavior. As we all know Barbara May lied to protect her hide at my expense to cover up her own negligence. When I exposed her publically she and John Halko banned me from Alberta Racquetball sanctioned tournaments. They are just being evil!
This gets really rich now from Wayne. He said when players were deciding whether to let me play at the Glen Allan Recreation Complex drop-in after Barb and John managed to get me banned from the Mayfield Club for breathing that it was Mike Biggs and himself that let me in. Why would you need to even consider letting me in when I didn't do anything wrong? You're operating from the same evil premise. You should stand on my side against injustice. After all you are a cop! I am not even sure this story is entirely true because for a year 2012-13, I only ever played Ryan Blackmore around 4 pm before the drop-in at 5 pm and didn't play the drop-in back then. Is this another one of Wayne's fabrications? His pretentious self-congratulating acts are to gratify and prop up self and make himself think he is a good person. Like John Halko and Barbara May he exhibits aggressive self-aggrandizement. I rebuke his pompousness and shallowness in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
I just read again what I posted above and stand on everything I said. Wayne out of spite, and vengeful, doesn't let me on the court he paid for. Where's the grace in that? He speaks of "grace" yet he is the most unforgiving person I know. It is so crowded you can only play doubles in the winter, but I found a solution. Steve has arranged for him and his partner (either Paul, Robert or Khalil) to play me twice a week, but not on Monday or Thursdays evenings to avoid Wayne Woiken. Woiken is a loose cannon ready to blow at any moment so best to stay away from him. He takes the fun out of racquetball when he lords over people. The Bible says turn the other cheek so that is what I have tried to do. Of all the players at Mill Woods Rec Center, Robert (Bog Angeli), owner of The Comedy Factory, is by far the best player so I play him primarily twice a week. He doesn't play with Wayne or the drop-ins.
Wayne looked like he was about to physically attack me with all the twitching going on in his face he was so angry, so I tried to keep things low key (Steve Dyck witnessed this). It's all I could do. This reminds me of Nebuchadnezzar and his distorted face full of rage. The parallels are strikingly similar.
[Dan 3:16-30 KJV] 16 Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego [These 3 symbolize the Trinity], answered and said to the king, O Nebuchadnezzar, we [are] not careful to answer thee in this matter. 17 If it be [so], our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver [us] out of thine hand, O king. 18 But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up. 19 Then was Nebuchadnezzar full of fury, and his face became distorted with rage changed against Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego: [therefore] he spake, and commanded that they should heat the furnace one seven times more than it was wont to be heated. 20 And he commanded the most mighty men [Wayne's sidekick, Mike Biggs, who doesn't think for himself] that [were] in his army to bind Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, [and] to cast [them] into the burning fiery furnace. 21 Then these men were bound in their coats, their hosen, and their hats, and their [other] garments, and were cast into the midst of the burning fiery furnace. 22 Therefore because the king's commandment was urgent, and harsh, and the furnace exceeding hot, the flame of the fire slew those men [Wayne's soldiers who side with his insanity] that took up Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. 23 And these three men, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, fell down bound into the midst of the burning fiery furnace. 24 Then Nebuchadnezzar the king was astonied, and rose up in haste, [and] spake, and said unto his counsellors, Did not we cast three men bound into the midst of the fire? They answered and said unto the king, True, O king. 25 He answered and said, Lo, I see four men loose, walking in the midst of the fire, and they have no hurt; and the form of the fourth is like the Son of God [Babylonians didn't understand the Trinity so they saw the pre-incarnate Son of God Jesus as "son of gods" instead in Aramaic]. 26 Then Nebuchadnezzar came near to the mouth of the burning fiery furnace, [and] spake, and said, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, ye servants of the most high God, come forth, and come [hither]. Then Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, came forth of the midst of the fire. 27 And the princes, governors, and captains, and the king's counsellors, being gathered together, saw these men, upon whose bodies the fire had no power, nor was an hair of their head singed, neither were their coats changed, nor the smell of fire had passed on them. 28 [Then] Nebuchadnezzar spake, and said, Blessed [be] the God of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, who hath sent his angel [Jesus], and delivered his servants that trusted in him, and have changed the king's word, and yielded their bodies, that they might not serve nor worship any god, except their own God. 29 Therefore I make a decree, That every people, nation, and language, which speak any thing amiss against the God of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, shall be cut in pieces, and their houses shall be made a dunghill: because there is no other God that can deliver after this sort. 30 Then the king promoted Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, in the province of Babylon.
I said to Wayne, what are you going to do hit me in the gut like John Halko punched Manny Gregorio in the gut 3 times on the racquetball court when John lost it? I guess now we will avoid each other forever, because he doesn't want to repent of his abusive behavior. I saw him at Millennium Place in Sherwood Park when I was working out, but just avoided him.
An Indian fella from India who is a Christian for believing in Christ said in the sauna he thinks Wayne is jealous of me at racquetball (I did not offer this idea, he came up with it on his own). He also though Wayne was reacting badly because Wayne knows I know he is going to Hell because he rejects Christ. That was nicely confirming what I already suspected and that these thoughts are not my own but instilled by the Holy Spirit shared with other Christians. I would also suggest that he is just tired of getting beat so badly he can't take it any more! I will relieve him of his suffering and not play racquetball at the drop-in Mondays and Thursdays evenings at the Mill Woods Rec Centre.
So I have 1) Mike McPhee, 2) Darryl Thomas, and 3) Steve, Paul, Robert and Khalil for two-on-one (Robert also introduced me to someone else who is now playing at the time when I play). This is a great group of guys. Robert is amazing. Excellent drive serves and quick as a bunny. I am exhausted every time I play him. He gets way more points on me than anyone else. Steve is playing lots and is the youngest. He's improving the most. His drive serves are effective. Paul is always good, and Khalil has a powerful wrist snap off the back wall he kills it every time.
The Mill Woods Rec Centre drop-in on Mondays and Thursdays evenings only has C players so there is no loss not playing them anymore. So few are left anyway. Wayne is so transparent, conspiring to get them to gang up on me to prevent me from playing. He's evil. Those C players are Wayne Woiken, Mike Biggs, Gloria Fergusen, Joe Tam, Bernie Grumpelt, the two Toms (haven't seen one of the Toms in a couple months), George (he plays only once or twice a month if that), Walter Sawchuk (plays only occasionally), Richard (haven't seen him in months) and that's it. They are all over 50 or 60 years of age. Walter is over 70. Wayne is a bully in his tiny little world and sphere of influence where he tries to erect himself. He is just lashing out because I exposed his unethical behavior on the Internet. He is so vengeful! Wayne is not a nice guy that much is certain. I don't believe he has a conscience to even realize what he is doing is wrong.
God used Wayne's evil for my good though, because now I am not going to be standing around, getting cold, waiting to get on the court nor play doubles which is really not helpful. It's a blessing in disguise because I am playing better players at singles and two-on-one regularly, no doubles. I should have been doing this all along. The times when I play are better also. There is something about playing earlier in the day when there is less ruckus. I love how this has turned out. And even if I only practice (I remember as a junior I practiced lots shot after shot endlessly at Sherwood Racquet Courts and that's how I became the Alberta Junior Champ) that can still be effective. I have to do something differently in 2016 so I will practice lots more. You can never practice too much. I am tracking the 12th ranked player in Canada which stays in effect till Nov., 2016 so that gives me 12 months to move up in ranking.
Waiting to find out what nefarious thing Wayne is going to do to me. Feels like he is going to retaliate even further. He is so unpleasant. He's taking his work to the courts and we are the brunt of it: the only person at the Mill Woods drop-in that has these insanely hostile confrontations. All you can do is grin and bear it or avoid him. I have chosen the latter by playing on different days and different times. His garbage negatively affects my game, steals my energy and my mojo, and makes me feel uncomfortable so I am hoping my game improves, and in tournaments, now that I don't have to put up with him anymore. I need a healthy positive, constructive environment to play well instead of Wayne dragging me down to his depressive state.
